Marriage is one of the most sacred and oldest institutions known to man. In order to make a marriage last both partners need to be understanding and considerate of one another. Of course joy, harmony and love are also key components for a successful union. However, the determining the date for your wedding is just as important. Many are aware that the divorce rate and the number of separations in the United States are extremely high.
From my experience people who had their partner in harmony with their birth number had a loving marriage. If the vibrations were bad, the marriage was bad. So I suggest to marry a partner with harmonious numbers.
Numerology has it's own ways of determining marital compatibility, which does not seem to have been understood by people, owing to their ignorance of this science. From the study of numerology, we can find out weather two individuals, who intend to live together, have natural compatibility. It will also be a good guide, as it will help the two individuals to understand each other thoroughly.
Numerology study helps in psycho analysis of couples. It is important for both the individuals to understand each other’s approach towards life and also each other’s likes and dislikes. In the absence of this understanding, it is hard for them to live together happily.
According to the date of birth, everybody should find out towards whom he or she has a natural affinity, and who can be his or her life partner. Even after marriage, some marital problems could and, in fact, do arise on account of incompatibility between the spouses, not obvious to them before marriage.
If a couple has marital problems on account of incompatibility, we can work on their birth dates and names. If the birth dates match but, even then, the two do not get along well and have quarrels, we can work out the vowels in their names so that, on the mental level, they could have harmony.
Every name has a vibratory number. The vowels and consonants in the names represent the mental and material numbers respectively. The mental number works upon the mind and affects the minds and personality of the individual. Through the consonant we can know the material picture of the individual. Thus the name creates mental vibrations of an individual. The particular planets according to their numbers govern these two. If mental vibrations of both individuals are of friendly or favorable planets’ numbers, both names emit harmonious vibrations and their radiations are in unison with each other, they sail smoothly in life. If their vibrations are not in unison, the results are bound to be the opposite.
All those born on 1st, 10th, 19th, or 28th of any month come under this class. They are frank, honest and brave. They are egoistic. They have high ideals in life with morals. They come straight to the point and do not beat about the bush. They have self-confidence, courage and originality. They are articulate, but kind and noble-hearted. They are commanding and aristocratic by nature. They love their homes and spend much of their time at home.
All those born on 2nd, 11th, 20th, or 29th, of any month come under this class. They are dreamers; They build castles in the air; They are emotional, cowardly and homely type. They are sympathetic, affectionate and satisfied with whatever they get from their partners. They will assist their partners. Sometimes they are off mood and and edgy and even small matters irritate them and they fight with their partners.
All those born on 3rd, 12th, 21st, or 30th, of any month come under this class. They are sympathetic and warm. They have high morality. They like peace and harmony. They have self-respect. If they receive any help from others, they feel there is some weakness in them; They wish to participate in outdoor activities. They have more confidence in themselves.
All those born on 4th, 13th, 22nd, or 31st, of any month come under this category. They are moody, yet reliable and trustworthy. Whenever their mood is upset, it takes them long to return to normal. They are hard workers but suspicious and contradictory by nature. At the same time, they are generous and loving. They are cautious but domineering and fastidious and expect partners to share their ideas. They want all affairs of the home to be run as per their own ideas and cause tension by imposing their will on others.
All those born on 5th, 14th, or 23rd, of any month come under this category. They are creative. They expect the same degree of neatness and tidiness from their partners. They are interested in the home as well as the outdoors. They want to see their partners well dressed. They are liberal in spending on clothes and other wants of the family. They easily forget their difficulties. They always like changes in environment, ideas, dress and in running their homes.
All those born on 6th, 15th, or 24th, of any month come under this category. They are passionate, fond of new cloths and like to put on costly dresses. They like to wear ornaments. They expect their partners to be neat, charming and graceful. They love their partners, home and children. They are kind, generous, devoted and sympathetic. They never save money. They spend their earnings on whatever interests them. They have a sharp memory and an unduly bloated ego.
All those born on 7th, 16th, or 25th, of any month come under this category. They are stubborn and disagree with the opinions of others. They don’t mix with people. They want freedom and do not hesitate even to change traditions when necessary. They seems mysterious to others. They are suspicious and critical. This creates tension in the family.
They have an extreme sense of discipline and duty. They are contradictory persons with a series of different opinions. They are mostly solitary and melancholy. They are orthodox, and never adopt modern ideas in dress at home or in public places. They have controlling power.
They are brave and courageous. They easily adapt and gear up to any circumstances. They have endurance. They will more likely exercise severity than kindness. They are always aggressive and will not stop until they achieve their goal. They don’t accept defeat. They seem to be born fighters. Despite a foul temper. They lead a good married life and love children and the family.
Apart from adjusting the vibrational numbers of their names, there are also remedial measures through the use of gems. Couples who suffer from incompatible alliances should wear suitable gems. By wearing gems the bad effects of those planets are then minimized, and good and favorable effects may be produced.
The selection of gems should be done carefully. In numerology, the planetary position of a person should first be examined. Next, the house of marriage and married life should be carefully studied. Then, according to the strengths, afflictions and negativity of the planets, gems should be selected. These are done through numerological horoscope.
If the Sun produces evil effects on marital happiness, in this period Ruby should be worn. But before that, we have to consider the position of the Sun and Venus in the horoscope to get the correct picture. This is very important. In the same way, ‘turquoise’ may be given to the person to whom Venus causes disappointments in marital happiness. It can work like magic; Moonstone and green onyx also play important roles in producing marital happiness.
Therefore, the selection of the perfect gem for conjugal happiness should be done by a numerologist.